My goodness it’s been a busy day on the phones today, must be everyone is taking time off early for the holiday and needs a little stress relief! ::giggle:: I of course am out of school this week so I have been taking advantage of the extra time I have available to talk to some of the daytime callers that I’ve missed the last month or so! I had an interesting discussion with one of my callers today, and also see that it is a topic of discussion on our Cock Control forum at www.TeaseMania.com , so I thought I’d touch on it here a bit as well since a lot of my cuckolds and fetish slaves certainly fit the bill here!
When it comes to humiliation, it can be a hard topic and fetish to explain and to understand. Some may have the impression that if there is no mean words spoken or physical roughness that it means there is no humiliation, but that is not the case. Humiliation is very simply, giving control to someone else. It is a form of humiliation to make one beg to have an orgasm (or beg for anything, for that matter), it is a form of humiliation to practice orgasm denial, especially if the one doing the denial is having an orgasm of their own ::giggle::. It is a form of humiliation to worship another’s feet or any other part of the body, and it is humiliation to be told how to mastrubate, or to be forced to watch someone else mastrubate in front of you while you are not allowed to touch yourself. These are only a few of many examples of erotic humiliation…and none of them involve calling names, physically hurting someone, or any of the usual forms of behavior that are associated with the word ‘humiliation’.
In the right environment and in the right relationship, humiliation can be a very erotic thing. It is quite sexy and very much a turn-on to be able to give yourself over completely to someone else, but it does take a lot of trust and developing a relationship. I have good dominate/submissive relationships with many of my callers, and I know their likes and dislikes, and how far I should push them or make them push themselves. It can be a fine line, but with the right encouragement, communication and trust, it can also be a very rewarding experience, for both the submissive and the dominant. I know I get extreme pleasure from having my subs give themselves over to me completely, and I don’t take that trust lightly. I also know that for some of them, I am the only one that they can truly express their most secret inner desires and needs, because sometimes society can be so judgemental. I don’t judge, in fact I encourage my callers to explore the fantasies that excite them the most (as long as they are legal, of course ::giggle::) even if it is normally frowned upon by society. Only you have control over your pleasure, don’t let someone else intimidate you into denying yourself those things which are erotic to you. If you’re not hurting anyone else, it’s no one else’s business but your own, and your partner, if you have one.
If you’re looking to explore more of your own interests in fetishes, or this type of humiliation or role play, then definitely give me a call… you will wonder what took you so long to call me in the first place! ::giggle::
Princess Heather
Tease and Denial Phone Sex Temptress
800-356-6169
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